And then see them a few months later laughing and joking about their old way of thinking, their perceived problems, and proclaiming they now knew one thing for certain. "We will never break up over sex!" The Varsity New couples quickly get plenty of opportunities with the "varsity players." The varsity was a term we used to describe those that had seriously played for several years. They were confident, highly skilled, highly orgasmic, and proactive when it came to all things sexual. When new couples got to play with them it wouldn't be long and "Mr. Slam Bam Thank You Ma'am" turned into a more humble version of himself, believing he now "knew nothing about sex." It happened to me. I was married twenty years before I went to a club with Ash. I had no idea that within a few short weeks I would come to understand that I really knew shit about what great sex was like. It was the same with sucking the woman, often a passive limp body woman, who thought her only role in bed was just letting her guy "do her." No one at the club had to tell her anything. Just let her watch some women who really knew their way around a bedroom. Here was the hardest part about clinical style counseling with a couple... We would eventually come to the point where he, she, or both needed to understand, to really come to terms with, the fact they were a terrible lover. Who dares to tell them that? I didn't want to. Most counselors don't even try and find ways to justify this avoidance. Because that's... "Eye surgery, my friend!" However, turn that young couple over to some of the varsity players and that "hot stud" was going to watch a varsity guy take his wife to heights she didn't know existed and the same was true oriental with the young wife watching the varsity wife taking charge over her husband, and all the while being completely Head Giving unafraid to "explain a few things" to her man! Right Brain Left Brain It's amazing to me how and why a tender loving sexual relationship between two people can seem so sacred and why at the same time their hot erotic side can seem so illicit. The only thing that has made sense is that it has a lot to do with the left brain right brain issue. The left brain is our rational problem solving side. It is the side that most needs public or cultural acceptance. It's the side that opts for safety, reputation, and cost analysis. Warm safe predictable sex fits well in that side of the equation. I lean into sucking her and kiss the back of her neck. As Nikki played with his balls and sucked him to a full erection, Zane gestured to Julie. “Vibrate her.” She then placed both her thumbs inside her waistband and used them to sensually pull her panties off. "Earlier, you said you were dealing with some difficult things, but you weren't doing it alone anymore. It is usually very small: a bed, a desk and a chair are often the only things in it. He told her to relax her sphincter muscle which would alleviate the initial pain. She jumped in surprise as the tip of Harold’s prick slid up and down Head Giving between the cheeks of her ass. Cum for me baby, oriental cum for me, cum for me,” Bec is imploring as she tongue kisses me while I fight to hold back what will be the huge orgasm I can feel building up. Eighteen and nubile. Faintly, I could hear the *gluck-gluck-gluck* sound of my cock being deepthroated from under the table, and my orgasm drew near. This was one of those pubs that have a restaurant attached and Jon had just assumed that I was hungry. “If I wasn’t a student, and I went here to smoke, would I be misrepresenting the school, or nah?” she clarified. “No, though I can see how you’d assume so. I smiled with her, and from that smile, I uttered my first moan.